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The Grown-Up’s Guide to Overcoming Sibling Rivalry

Why your siblings drive you nuts, how to heal a rift, and what birth order really means.

Corrie Evanoff

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Expert advice on strengthening your relationship with your sibling, from setting healthy boundaries and reigniting friendship, to getting through tough arguments and parent-driven conflict. Plus, how to heal when your relationship with your brother or sister is damaged beyond repair.

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The Longest Relationships of Our Lives

As brothers and sisters grow up, what they do can determine whether they stay stuck in their childhood roles—or break free of them.

Arguing With a Sibling? Here’s How to Approach the Situation in a Helpful Way

Getting into an argument with a sibling can be pretty intense—here’s how to handle the situation.

How to Be Friends With Your Sibling

Whether you’ve always been close, or wish you got along better, here’s how to bolster your connection.

The Lifelong Effects of ‘The Favourite Child’

Most parents won’t admit it, but a surprising number have a ‘hidden favourite’ and the way they treat that child compared to their siblings can have long-lasting impacts.

When an Ailing Parent Needs More Care, Sibling Conflicts Can Arise and Add to Stress

One brother or sister typically shoulders the greatest burden. That person may clash with the other relatives. But there are ways to prepare and avoid conflicts.

What to Do if a Sibling Is Treating Your Parents Badly

You don’t always have to intervene, but if you decide to, make sure you have everyone’s side of the story.

The Truth About Sibling Personality Traits, According to Science

Is it better to be the eldest, youngest, or middle child? Psychologists have some thoughts, and what they have to say is pretty much guaranteed to stoke the flames of sibling rivalry.

How to Know When It’s Time to Walk Away From a Sibling

Sibling estrangement, like the rift between Prince Harry and Prince William, isn’t uncommon. Here’s how to know whether your sibling relationship is worth repairing or ending, according to psychologist Joshua Coleman.

Want More? Here’s How to Talk to People You Disagree With

Bridge the divide with thoughtful conversation techniques, next-level listening, and a dip into the science of changing minds.